January 2011
1 post
An Overdue Post: Ekang's List of Things to...
Forgive yourself. Accept that you once let someone tear down the wall that you oh-so-carefully built around you for so many years and made yourself open to pain. Accept your human weakness nature of wanting, needing, yearning, to be loved and that when an opportunity presented itself for it to finally happen, you gave in and gave all you had. Accept that the past would have turned out better if...
November 2010
1 post
“Remember, no one is racing you to the finish line; this battle is yours alone....”
– Michelle B. Meneses, Floundering at 25: A Younglife Crisis
July 2010
1 post
never look back.
i think that’s how he does it. he’s the type of person who doesn’t dwell on memories, on things that happened in the past, both good and bad. when we were together, he never really thought of things about our relationship unless i was able to tell him something that would provoke him to think. otherwise, he would just think about his career, his spirituality, and, basically,...
June 2010
2 posts
you got me twisting, tumbling.
livejournal was where my friends and i used to post all the so-called drama in our lives, back when were younger and every single thing mattered. when an ignored “hello” was read as a destruction of a friendship, when a failing grade felt like armageddon, and an unrequited affection was considered death. but these days, most of my friends have moved on past this stage, opting for beer...
“When I say always, I mean forever.”
– The Promise (I’ll Never Say Goodbye), Alan and Marilyn Bergman